How to Choose a Sex Toy for a Gay Male Couple in the Couple's Sex Toy

How to Choose a Sex Toy for a Gay Male Couple

Looking for a toy for a heterosexual couple or lesbian couple? Visit our Heterosexual Couples Toy Guide or our Lesbian Couples Toy Guide.

Gay Couple's Toy - A sex toy made for two men to use at the same time. Many times this phrase simply refers to any toy that may be used on both partners, not necessarily simultaneously.
We know how overwhelming selecting a toy for both of you can be. Fortunately, if you answer two simple questions, it's easy!

1. Do you want something to use to liven up your sex life?

  • Are you looking for something to use during intercourse? You might want to try a vibrating erection ring perhaps turned upside down for stimulation of the testicles.
  • Do you want something to liven up foreplay? Then a fingertip massager or a micro-bullet would be perfect, as both are small enough to use with hands or tongues.
  • It can be incredibly erotic to watch your partner use a masturbation device, or to use a masturbation device on your partner.
  • Flavored products add that certain extra something to oral play, and they're perfect for that first introduction to bedroom extras.

2. Are you looking for something soft and romantic to woo your partner?


  • Do you simply want a sensual way to spend more time with your mate? Try a warm bath with scented bubbles to cleanse and massage daily stress away.
  • Are you seeking a fun way to initiate your sexual encounters? You should definitely look into body balms, dusts, and paints. Use them as innocently or indecently as you both want, just be sure you have old blankets or sheets you don't mind getting dirty

3. Make Sure You Have All Your Accessories

Finally, after you've selected the product that you think meets your needs, make sure you have all of the following:
  • Plenty of fresh batteries in the proper size for your battery-operated toy. The description and the box your vibe comes in should say what size is needed.
  • The MyPleasure Customer Service email in case you have questions!
Now that you've found something that you like, enjoy it in good health and great pleasure!


How do I introduce a toy to my lover?
It's not as intimidating as it might seem! For more guidance, please read Introducing Sex Toys Into Your Relationship.

Should we use lubricant with our toys?
Yes! You should always use lubricant with any sex toy. We recommend using lubricant for all types of sex play.

What type of lubricant should I use?

That depends on what type of sex toy you have! Look for your answer in Lubricant - How Do I Use It With Sex Toys?

What type of lubricant is best for anal sex?

The best types of lubricant for anal sex are either a thicker, water-based lubricant which will provide extra cushion or a silicone-based lubricant which will last a long time. Though petroleum-base lubricants will also be smooth, they are not condom safe. If you need help relaxing we recommend Pjur Analyse Me. Anal lubes that numb can be dangerous, please be careful!

Why do all the masturbation sleeves seem so small?

Masturbation sleeves may seem small, but you'd be surprised how much they can accommodate. For more information, please see The Ins and Outs of Masturbation Sleeve Dimensions.

How can I make my penis bigger?

You can create small size and stamina increases in your penis with either a pump or an erection ring. However, these results are only temporary. For more information, please read the MyPleasure Guide to Sex Toys on Penis Extenders