How to Choose a Sex Toy for a Lesbian Couple in the Couple's Sex Toy S

Lesbian Sextoy Guide

Looking for a toy for a heterosexual couple or gay male couple? Visit our Heterosexual Couples Toy Guide or our Gay Male Couples Toy Guide.

Lesbian Couple's Toy - A sex toy made for two women to use at the same time. Many times this phrase simply refers to any toy that may be used on both partners, not necessarily simultaneously.
We know how overwhelming selecting a toy for both of you can be. Fortunately, if you answer two simple questions, it's easy!

1. Do you want something to use to liven up your sex life?

  • Are you looking for something to use during intercourse? The most obvious choice would be a harness, but a strap-on clitoral stimulator for clitoral stimulation while she's being pleasured elsewhere is also an option.
  • Looking for a toy you can both use at once? A double-ended dildo is perfect for shared satisfaction, but almost any vibrator can also be adapted for shared use.
  • Do you want something to liven up foreplay? Then a fingertip massager or a micro-bullet would be perfect, as both are small enough to use with hands or tongues.
  • Something for use in public? Then you definitely want something that's remote-controlled.
  • Vibrating panties or an insertable remote egg will make a night out extremely memorable. Just be sure there's plenty of background noise!

2. Are you looking for something soft and romantic to woo your partner?


    • Do you simply want a sensual way to spend more time with your mate? Try a warm bath with scented bubbles to cleanse and massage daily stress away.
    • Are you seeking a fun way to initiate your sexual encounters? You should definitely look into body balms, dusts, and paints. Use them as innocently or indecently as you both want, just be sure you have old blankets or sheets you don't mind getting dirty

    3. Make Sure You Have All Your Accessories

    Finally, after you've selected the product that you think meets your needs, make sure you have all of the following:
    • Plenty of fresh batteries in the proper size for your battery-operated toy. The description and the box your vibe comes in should say what size is needed.
    • The MyPleasure Customer Service email in case you have questions!
    Now that you've found something that you like, enjoy it in good health and great pleasure!


How do I introduce a toy to my lover?
It's not as intimidating as it might seem! For more guidance, please read Introducing Sex Toys Into Your Relationship.

Should we use lubricant with our toys?

Yes! You should always use lubricant with any sex toy. We recommend using lubricant for all forms of sex play.

What type of lubricant should I use?

That depends on what type of sex toy you have! Look for your answer in Lubricant - How Do I Use It With Sex Toys?

What type of sex toy is best for G-Spot stimulation?

Any type of sex toy with a curvature at the end can be used to stimulate a woman's G-Spot, including both dildos and vibrators. Many women also report that G-Spot toys made of a more sturdy material such as smooth, hard plastic, glass, acrylic, or steel yield better results for direct stimulation of the G-Spot. Read our G-Spot Toy Guide for more information.

Can I use any dildo in a harness?

Dildos with wider, flared bases are often usable with a harness, but if you want to be sure, you should stick to products from our Strap On Harnesses and Dildos collection.

What's the best clitoral stimulator for intense stimulation?

For really powerful clitoral stimulation we recommend strong bullet vibes and wand vibrators.

What about something that offers direct clitoral stimulation while I'm pleasuring her orally?

We'd recommend the Le Réve 3-Speed Bullet micro bullet because it's small size makes it easy to manipulate with tongue or hands.

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